Procrastination: A Devil...

Its being a very long vacation for my blogs...but lately I'm struggling with time and all types of different commitments...atleast for a temporary period, I'm left with few...;)

Neways...there is a lot to write about various topics I have been thinking..but it will be over a period...today's title is one which everyone knows...but I had lately experienced this big time and may be I could not forget this incident for a life time...

In life, one come across many unwanted and unexpected things...but that's the rule of life!!!...it does not come at your doorstep by giving prior notice instead just pops out of nowhere standing in front of you...everyone has a lot going on in their minds about what they gonna do and planning stuff...but life makes an interesting turn and if you are not prepared for that surprise, you go rolling down the hill...

Well, I had lots of things to do but it all comes at the same time and that's it...you get confused and don't know what to do and what not...so much going on in that small brain and that leads to delaying the things you should have done earlier...I'll quote an incident...Earlier last week, I had lots of plans going around to help my grand mom, trying to help her recover from her 6 month bed rest and that glooming atmosphere she was living in...infact I told my dad to bring her to our place by whatever means possible...but as things go around us and quoted in The Secret, once you start neglecting things or start delaying, it goes away from you...

Worse than that, I was about to meet her when I had my holidays started and had time to see her condition and talk lot of things with her (I always loved to) I postponed that after my exams...3 days later my sister went and saw her and told me that she is in a really bad condition and not responding to any phone calls, not even talking or opening her eyes to the person sitting next to her...It was a freezing moment to hear that...This time I decided that no matter what I'll meet her on Sunday after my exams but the universe had altogether different plans...

Next afternoon...I got a call and every hope of meeting her, chatting with her and each single time I loved being with her disappeared suddenly...She died...

That feeling of not meeting the person for whom you had planned so much and craving to meet her but just due to other commitments...you delayed...and you lost a chance of a lifetime...I really regret my decision of delaying and thought of meeting her next week...which will never come

Guys...do the things you yourself want to do...figure out time for yourself...Do not Procrastinate!!! you never know what all things you had planned may vanish in a blink of an eye..

Keeping Kool!!!

I have always felt that every situation can be taken care of when your mind is stable and one's at his cool, calm and stuff like that...infact I now also believe in the same but sometimes circumstances demand you being out of your wits...

I always have the problem to lose temper when things don't go the way I want (well I guess this is the case with every individual)....but its not because I want my say in a particular thing or I'm stubborn or sooo...its just that when somethings are for the benefit of others...the person whom I love and for whatever reason, the things don't go right, I feel bad and I'm at my wits end and bulge out..

This is the situation which I always repent after removing my frustration and anger on others because I don't like to yell and create a commotion but I'm not totally wrong...I've a little expectation that the other person(s) have the maturity level and the thinking capability to understand the circumstances though not in the same way...

But today, I have felt one thing which needs to be incorporated I guess in everyone's life is that...Try to keep yourself cool whatever may be the situation because that will help you to think better and more productive...for this thing, I admire one of my friend whom I've never seen loosing his temper and he gets an easy way out of the trouble...well keeping kool will also help you in avoiding a hell lot of controversies...;)

Btw Keeping cool and not loosing your temper does not mean one cannot be Aggressive!!!

On the sideline....watch How I met your Mother and you'll will know how interesting and tension free life izz!!!

Know THYSELF!!!

Today's topic is an unusual one but may be a good start to blogging. The title of the blog seems self explanatory but these two words are very hard to define and hardly anyone follows its literal meaning.

In today's world, everyone's there to correct each other...as if they consider themselves as professors, but they don't understand that the guidance which they give to others is actually in some way applicable to them also...No One is Perfect!!!! this is a very apt sentence...but there is one more saying that "If you chase perfection, you will achieve EXCELLENCE." To excel by self introspection and eliminate the wrong in you, trying to achieve perfection...

Self Realization is very important for anyone who wants to grow...How the hell are you in the position to teach others when you are not applying it for yourself?! That means you don't know the person you trust the most...YOURSELF!! Well these were the questions which I realized when I was giving guidance to someone else...

Self Introspection can be done in a variety of ways...you are the best person to judge yourself..not anyone else. Try to understand what are things which disturbs you the most, understand your true character...it will give you amazing facts abt none other than YOU...and as it is rightly said.."You are the person who can change the person in the mirror"...The change is inevitable and believe me, knowing different parts of your own stuff will amaze you...

Try to figure out by giving a deep thought and I'll be waiting for your replies......

At the end, A tribute to a Visionary who passed away Mr Steve Jobs...whose thoughts can make a big difference...I don't know much about him as of now, but I'll share one of his thoughts..."Remembering that you are going to die one day will help you to avoid trapping yourself to think that there is something to lose...We are already naked...So there is no reason not to follow your heart"

First Step towards BLOGGING.....

Heyy everyone...After much longer wait to write down, I finally got a day to start expressing through blogs..But before writing, a lil confession that I had never thought in my life that I would do such kinda thing..nyways I guess that's part of life, u end up doin which u have never thought of...there were lots of inspirational sources starting with one of ma best friends who already blogs..it seemed interesting and got exciting as I read other ppl's blogs and I started thinking about what will I write...

Reading blogs has become a habit as whenever I get time in office these days, I start reading...such wonderful and informative blogs of various ppl..i'll share their details in my writing..;)

Well, I don't plan to make my blogs boring instead a lil informative and some philosophical thoughts which would enable me to express better and may be help some of my readers..(I hope I find few)

The name of my blog (suggested by ma sister) matches with the intention of me writing as there are lot of things in this life which you cannot fully express...but thru blogs you can thrash it out..the name of site 'empirical knowledge' means a very detailed and practical research on any subject.

That's all for first writing....

I will end with a quote which is my first own invention and one of the most motivational in ma lyf.."When the determination is great, the difficulties cannot be great"