Keeping Kool!!!

I have always felt that every situation can be taken care of when your mind is stable and one's at his cool, calm and stuff like that...infact I now also believe in the same but sometimes circumstances demand you being out of your wits...

I always have the problem to lose temper when things don't go the way I want (well I guess this is the case with every individual)....but its not because I want my say in a particular thing or I'm stubborn or sooo...its just that when somethings are for the benefit of others...the person whom I love and for whatever reason, the things don't go right, I feel bad and I'm at my wits end and bulge out..

This is the situation which I always repent after removing my frustration and anger on others because I don't like to yell and create a commotion but I'm not totally wrong...I've a little expectation that the other person(s) have the maturity level and the thinking capability to understand the circumstances though not in the same way...

But today, I have felt one thing which needs to be incorporated I guess in everyone's life is that...Try to keep yourself cool whatever may be the situation because that will help you to think better and more productive...for this thing, I admire one of my friend whom I've never seen loosing his temper and he gets an easy way out of the trouble...well keeping kool will also help you in avoiding a hell lot of controversies...;)

Btw Keeping cool and not loosing your temper does not mean one cannot be Aggressive!!!

On the sideline....watch How I met your Mother and you'll will know how interesting and tension free life izz!!!

Know THYSELF!!!

Today's topic is an unusual one but may be a good start to blogging. The title of the blog seems self explanatory but these two words are very hard to define and hardly anyone follows its literal meaning.

In today's world, everyone's there to correct each other...as if they consider themselves as professors, but they don't understand that the guidance which they give to others is actually in some way applicable to them also...No One is Perfect!!!! this is a very apt sentence...but there is one more saying that "If you chase perfection, you will achieve EXCELLENCE." To excel by self introspection and eliminate the wrong in you, trying to achieve perfection...

Self Realization is very important for anyone who wants to grow...How the hell are you in the position to teach others when you are not applying it for yourself?! That means you don't know the person you trust the most...YOURSELF!! Well these were the questions which I realized when I was giving guidance to someone else...

Self Introspection can be done in a variety of ways...you are the best person to judge yourself..not anyone else. Try to understand what are things which disturbs you the most, understand your true character...it will give you amazing facts abt none other than YOU...and as it is rightly said.."You are the person who can change the person in the mirror"...The change is inevitable and believe me, knowing different parts of your own stuff will amaze you...

Try to figure out by giving a deep thought and I'll be waiting for your replies......

At the end, A tribute to a Visionary who passed away Mr Steve Jobs...whose thoughts can make a big difference...I don't know much about him as of now, but I'll share one of his thoughts..."Remembering that you are going to die one day will help you to avoid trapping yourself to think that there is something to lose...We are already naked...So there is no reason not to follow your heart"